Recently I have read quite a few postings of dating relationships, waiting for Mr. Right, and never letting go of your morals or dreams. As I have read these articles, I have completely agreed with these guys and girls saying things that are important for every single to hear. In fact, most of these articles were directed toward a specific gender: women.
Through the many posts, blogs, and articles, I found a pretty distinctive theme. Most of the individuals re-posting these things need to ask themselves one very difficult question: is the person that I am going to attract the person I am reading about?
Now, before you throw stones, let me please explain. This question is the source of your anger. Or is it the answer to the question that is causing you to argue throwing your computer or to stop reading?
Here is what I know about me before I met my wife. I was not, in any way, the guy she would have been looking for. As a matter of fact we often joke about the fact that neither of us would have fallen in love so quickly with each other had we met earlier. It took a lot of work, looking in the mirror, hard conversations, personal and spiritual growth, as well as a good amount of contentment to find ourselves in a position where we felt like we were ready to be with the spouse of our dreams.
So here is my point, because of a lot of you who would like to post those blogs from above may need to ask a HUGE question best said by Andy Stanley: are you the person, that the person you are looking for, is looking for? Well… are you?
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Food for thought: It is never too late to become the person you want to be.
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